“My dad and my mom” - The record of two lives become one…
Posted by peterIn late 2009 I learned about a remarkable story. It is the story of a couple who lived in Shandong province, told by their son Jian Bo, a renowned photographer, who works at China’s State Council News Office where he heads the Art Photo Library. In 1974 he began to record with his camera the life of his parents. In December 1998, a collection of these photos became the subject of an exhibition at the China National Art Gallery. His parents were there to cut the ceremonial ribbon whereby the exhibition was declared open. The exhibition was celebrated by the media as one that “moved the capital and stirred the entire nation”. That year, Jian Bo’s collection of photos was awarded the grand prize in an international competition of photos documenting traditional folk life and customs.
In the spirit of these pages — to tell my cnounters with and the stories of ordinary Chinese people — I’ve decided to publish this story here. I’ve attempted to contact Jian Bo to ask for permission to do so, but have not received a reply. I hope that when he finds out he won’t object to my sharing his story with all of you.
To view the original Chinese version, please follow this link. Jian Bo’s blog site is here. (为了看看原中文版的故事,请点击这个链接.)
And now, here is the story of Jian Bo’s parents….
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February 20th, 2010 at 1:12 pm
A most beautiful and touching story and incredible photography as well.. Thank you for sharing this Peter.
February 20th, 2010 at 9:25 pm
As we reach near to our 55th year of being one and in our 80s we can well relate to this charming story of honest work and love. Thank you Peter for sharing the lives of these two delightful people.
February 21st, 2010 at 11:59 am
Thank you very much Peter. It would be great to ask this couple how they managed to stay together for so long and be so happy together. In our days when couples seem to break up due to the smallest differing in opinions that would be probably a good advise.
February 21st, 2010 at 12:17 pm
So touching that I want to love my wife more!
February 21st, 2010 at 2:45 pm
Thank you for sharing. This story is in such sharp contrast to what we witness in the big cities, greedy business, no spirituality, no long term view, no trust. Will the good values die away with the old generation? Will the (few) idealists be just swept away or converted to the “new way”? Any optimists out there?
February 21st, 2010 at 5:20 pm
一段真实中国老百姓的生活和故事,耐人寻味。
February 21st, 2010 at 9:05 pm
I admire your website , it has of lot of information. You just got one perennial visitor of this blog.
February 21st, 2010 at 9:48 pm
Good sharing. Hope there will be more writings about these ordinary people, but touching stories. As you said, we need to value more our common points, instead of criticizing our differences, we need to enjoy more each other company, instead of hating adn killing.
February 22nd, 2010 at 7:41 am
Hello my friends, thank you for your comments. I’m very happy that this special story also touches you.
Terry - when are you going to come to South-West China? I don’t think I’m going to make it to Beijing any time soon…
Paul - really hope go meet you and Bernice one day.
All my friends, please visit http://www.paulnoll.com for a wealth of information about China and thoughts about life!
Dana - well, unfortunately this couple has passed away, but thanks to their son, they do live on in a way. Many of the photos speak volumes about how to make relationships work…
MC - oh my, what an incredibly nice thing to say!
Andreas - well, there is one optimist out there right here, my little self!
王皓,红红,我就是希望让人家多理解中国老百姓的生活!
TC - one usually fights what one doesn’t know. The spirit of these pages is to make China more familiar…
February 22nd, 2010 at 9:54 am
This almost brought me to tears they remined me so much of my own parents my Mum being a little older than my Dad and worked hard all their lives to support their large family of 7. My wife is also a little older than me she being born in the year of the Ox and me the Rabbit.
Alan
February 22nd, 2010 at 7:34 pm
Dear Alan, I’m very happy to hear that this story touched you, too. What’s nice about stories like this is that they remind us that there are many wonderful people in the world, except for we tend to get to know only a few….too few…
February 23rd, 2010 at 9:02 am
Wonderful!
March 1st, 2010 at 10:32 pm
I read blogs on a similar topic, but i never visited your blog. I added it to favorites and i’ll be your constant reader.